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Social conformity

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  • Give thanks for Japanese believers who know that, through Jesus, God accepts them as they are.
  • Pray for Japanese people who are facing severe effects of stress to put their faith in Christ and receive his grace.
  • Pray that Japanese Christians would have wisdom from God to respond to social pressures.

Grace to you and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.

Philemon 1:3

“I could never become a Christian; no one in my family has ever been one. I would betray them if I did.”
“My boss calls at 6 a.m. on my day off to tell me to come to work, so I have to go.”
“I’ve never spoken about Jesus at work because I don’t want to break the harmony.”
“I can’t pray at church because I can’t pray like other people.”

Pressure—to conform, to not make mistakes, to not admit weaknesses, to work beyond their limits—is often felt deeply by Japanese people. Many hide their true selves and are sensitive to how they are being viewed by others. When the daily stresses add up, the effects can be dire: mental health concerns, alcoholism, estranged families, and even suicide.

In a country where Christians are a tiny minority, pressure to conform can be felt as pressure not to become a Christian. For believers, conformity can be felt as pressure to keep their faith private and their struggles hidden.

In Christ, we find grace, acceptance, and rest, but in a pressurized society, those truths can be hard to believe and even harder to live out.

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<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Students in uniform on a school trip in Nagasaki.</span>
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Students in uniform in Yokohama. Most middle schools and high schools have strict policies regarding clothing and appearance. In recent years, some policies such as designated underwear color, hairstyles, and dyeing naturally brown hair black have come under question.</span>
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Students interacting with each other on a school trip in Yokohama. The pressures of group dynamics are felt from a young age. According to a 2023 report by the Cabinet Office, the top three challenges for youth in school were bullying, group participation, and relationships with friends.</span>
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Young women wearing </span><em style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">hakama</em><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> at their university graduation. Young adults often feel more freedom of self-expression in university, but quickly come up against strong societal expectations when looking for employment.</span>
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Social conformity

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  • Give thanks for Japanese believers who know that, through Jesus, God accepts them as they are.
  • Pray for Japanese people who are facing severe effects of stress to put their faith in Christ and receive his grace.
  • Pray that Japanese Christians would have wisdom from God to respond to social pressures.

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